Introducing your Cat to the Rest of the Family

Introducing your Cat to the Rest of the Family

If there are children in your house, especially small ones, introduce your cat to them gradually, during short periods of time. Frequent handling and gently playing are important, but children must understand that your cat is a sensitive, living creature. Teach the children how to pick him up and hold him. Slip one hand under his chest, holing the front legs gently but firmly with your fingers. At the same time, cup the other hand under your cat’s hindquarters. Never pick him up by the scruff of the neck or by his legs. Children must learn not to pull the cat’s tail or ears, squeeze or poke him, make loud, threatening noises or go toward him too rapidly.

A good way for both children and adults to play with a cat is to get down on the floor at his level to make him feel more secure. Remind children that even a small child can look like a giant to a cat. And a gentle cat may resort to scratching or biting to protect himself if he’s frightened.

If there are other pets in the house, introduce them to your cat with care and caution. An older cat, male or female, will usually accept a new kitten and will eventually help take care of him. But do not leave them alone together until you are sure they are friends.